‘The Prophet’s Marriage To Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) ”
Both her previous husbands having died, Khadeejah bint
 Khuwailid (Radi Allahu anha) was a widow. She was known for her noble character, and the people of the Quraish would call her, “The Pure and Chaste One”’
She (Radi Allahu anha) was also very wealthy; she would
 engage men to do business on her behalf. After she heard about
 the truthfulness and trustworthiness of Muhammad (Peace be upon him) , she proposed that he do business for her in Ash-Sham, promising to
 give him more than she gave to any other man who did business
 for her. He (Peace be upon him) agreed and left Makkah in the company of
 Maisarah, Khadija Radi Allahu anha’s servant. When Muhammad (Peace be upon him) reached Ash-
 Sham, he sold the merchandise he had with him, and with the
 proceeds purchased other merchandise. When all was said and
 done, he had made a lot of profit for Khadeejah and she felt
 that her wealth was blessed then more so than ever before.
Throughout the trip, Maisarah witnessed the
 wonderful character, nobility, and truthfulness of the Prophet (Peace be upon him) ;
 in addition to that, Khadijah experienced hitherto unparalleled
 blessings in her wealth.
Based upon these reasons, she had a heart to heart discussion with her close friend Nafeesah bint Munabbah, telling her about the positive feelings she was having about the
 Prophet (Peace be upon him) . Nafeesah went to the Prophet (Peace be upon him) and proposed to him on behalf of Khadeejah(Radi Allahu anha) . The Prophet (Peace be upon him) was pleased with the proposal, but he nonetheless first went to his uncles to seek their
 advice; they all agreed that he should marry her. And why
 shouldn’t he marry her, for she was the noblest woman among the
 Quraish; after her last husband had died, almost every Makkan
 chieftain proposed to her, and she refused them all.
And so shortly thereafter the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) married her. She was the
 first woman that the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) married, and he didn’t
 marry any other woman until she died. She gave birth to two of the
 Prophet’s sons and four daughters. The two sons were Al-Qaasim
 and ‘Abdullah (Radi Allahu anhu) – the latter of the two was also known by the names
 of At-Taahir and At-Tayyibb.
Around the age that he was able to mount a riding animal, Al-
 Qasim died. As for Abdullah (Radi Allahu anhu), he died as a child, prior to the
 beginning of his father’s Prophethood. The Prophet’s daughters
 were Zainab(Radi Allahu anha) , Ruqayyah(Radi Allahu anha) , Umm Khultoom(Radi Allahu anha) , and Fatimah (Radi Allahu anha)
 They all embraced Islam, married, and migrated to Al-
 Madeenah. When the Prophet (Peace be upon him) married Khadeejah(Radi Allahu anha) , he was twenty-five years old and she was forty.
Morals and Lessons:
1) Trustworthiness and truthfulness are the two most important
 qualities of a successful businessman. They were the very two
 qualities that prompted Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) to ask the Prophet (Peace be upon him) to
 do business on her behalf. Consequently, Allah opened
 many doors of goodness for her.
2) Business was one of the means through which Allah
 provided sustenance for the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) prior to his
 Prophethood. Later on his life, the Prophet said that, if a
 Muslim businessman is both trustworthy and truthful, then he
 will be resurrected among the Prophets, the truthful ones, and
 the martyrs. Business is an ideal occupation for a Muslim, for a
 businessman is not a slave to others; he does not always have
 to succumb to the whims and desires of an employer. And it is
 not he who needs people, but it is people who need him.
3) Allah decreed for the Prophet (Peace be upon him) to marry the ideal wife,
 Khadeejah(Radi Allahu anha) , a wife that was both a suitable companion and a
 trusted counselor and helper. Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) helped the Prophet (Peace be upon him) during difficult times, and participated alongside him in
 spreading the message of Islam.
One who invites others to the teachings of Islam is especially in
 need of a pious and good wife. Outside of the home, his days
 are filled with struggle, and he faces constant opposition from
 the enemies of Islam. He, therefore is in dire need, within the
 home, of a partner who will comfort him and provide him with
 the strength and encouragement he needs to fulfill his religious
 duties.
4) The Prophet (Peace be upon him) tasted the bitterness of losing his sons, just as
 previously in life, he (Peace be upon him) tasted the bitterness of losing his
 parents. It was from the wisdom of Allah that none of his
 sons lived past their childhood. With the death of the Prophet’s
 sons, no one could then be tempted because of them, in terms
 of loving them to an extreme level and claiming Prophethood
 for them. Furthermore, the early deaths of the Prophet’s
 children should serve as a comfort for those who aren’t blessed
 with sons, and for those who are blessed with sons but lose
 them at a very early age.
The death of the Prophet’s children was a form of tribulation,
 and as the Prophet (Peace be upon him) made it clear, no one is tested more
 severely than the Prophets. It was as if Allah wanted for
 sadness and sensitivity to be part of the Prophet’s existence for a leader who has experienced hardships and tests in life, and endures them with patience and forbearance,
 he is likely to then show compassion and sympathy to others
 who are afflicted with hardships.
5) The story of the Prophet’s marriage to Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) should
 make it clear to a Muslim that the Prophet (Peace be upon him) was not concerned
 with achieving the maximum level of physical pleasures that
 men commonly strive for. Had he been preoccupied with
 that, he would have, as other young men do, sought the hand
 of a woman who was younger than Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) or at least one
 who was not older than him. In choosing Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) as a wife,
 the Prophet (Peace be upon him) showed that he was primarily concerned with
 her nobility and character; after all, she was known in pre-
 Islamic days as “The Pure and Chaste One.”
6) The Prophet’s married life with Khadeejah(Radi Allahu anha) refutes the claims
 of those of Islam’s enemies who think that the topic of the
 Prophet’s marriages provides them with a lethal weapon with
 which they can attack Islam. When they talk about the Prophet , they paint the picture of a man who was obsessed with
 satisfying his lusts and desires. But in reality, nothing was
 further from the truth. Up until the age of 25, the Prophet (Peace be upon him)
 lived a chaste life not within the confines of a puritan society,
 but within a society that was replete with evil and ignorance, a
 society wherein one was free to have romantic and sexual
 encounters with as many women as one desired. Then when
 the Prophet (Peace be upon him) did decide to marry, he married a woman
 who was almost twice his age. During the next 15 years of his
 life, there was no Shariah or set of laws to forbid him from
 engaging in extra-marital affairs, as did other members of the
 Quraish, yet he (Peace be upon him) remained faithful to Khadeejah(Radi Allahu anha) , without
 even looking at any other woman, though there were many
 other women that were available.
The Prophet (Peace be upon him) remained married to Khadeejah (Radi Allahu anha) until she
 died at the age of 65, at a time when the Prophet (Peace be upon him) was himself
 approaching old age. It is between the ages of 20 and 50 that a
 man has especially strong desires for women other than his
 wife; and even though the opportunities to marry other
 women were available to the Prophet (Peace be upon him) , he (Peace be upon him) remained
 monogamous throughout that entire period.
As for the Prophet (Peace be upon him) marrying ‘Aishah (Radi Allahu anha) later on, as well as
 his other wives, each marriage had a story, a reason, and a
 wisdom behind it. The story behind each marriage highlights
 the wisdom and wonderful character of the Prophet (Peace be upon him)
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