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  • The Reasons Which Cause Love of Allāh

     

    The reasons which cause love of Allāh to develop, are TEN:

    First : Reciting the Qur‘ân, reflecting and understanding its meaning and its intent.

    Second: Drawing closer to Allāh – the Most High – through optional deeds, after fulfilling the obligatory duties.

    Third: Being continuous in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allāh, with the tongue, the heart and the limbs – under all circumstances. The more constant the dhikr, the more mahabbah develops and intensifies.

    Fourth: Giving precedence to what Allāh loves over personal loves, when being overcome by desires.

    Fifth: Contemplating and deliberating over the Names and Attributes of Allāh.

    Sixth: Recognising and remembering the favours and bounties of Allāh – both the manifest and hidden.

    Seventh: To be humble and submissive before Allāh – and this is the greatest matter.

    Eighth: To be in seclusion reciting the Qur‘ân, during that time in which Allāh descends to the lowest heaven (which is the last third of every night), finishing this recitation with seeking Allâh’s forgiveness and repenting to Him.

    Ninth: To sit in the gatherings of true and sincere lovers of Allāh, reaping the fruits of their speech, and not to speak except if there is benefit in it and that you know that such talk will increase you in goodness and that it will benefits others as well.

    Tenth: To stay clear of all those causes which distances the heart from Allāh – the Mighty and Majestic.

    So these are the ten reasons which cause the person to develop true love for Allāh and to reach the rank of al-muhabbah, by which he reaches his Beloved.” [Madārijus-Sālikīn  (pp.470-473)

     

    Source: Foundations of True Faith : Love for Allah – Al-Ibānah Magazine , Issue No.1 – By Shaykh ’Abdur-Rahmân ibn Hasan Ālush-Shaykh , Fathul-Majīd Sharh Kitābit-Tawhīd (pp.470-473)

     

    Dua to gain ALLAH’S LOVE, love of other people and good deeds

     

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  • Overcome your Stress, grief and sorrow

    Overcome your Stress, grief and sorrow

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    Are you SAD or HURT because you lost something? Are you feeling down because your plans didn’t work out?


    Did you lose a job, someone you loved or could not go where you wanted to?

    Read the following verse of the Holy Quran to understand why this happened.

    “But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not” – (Surat Al-Baqarah:216)”

    Many a times we fail to comprehend the wisdom behind Allah’s plans. But we must have faith in Him and where He takes us. He is the ALL- KNOWER; He knows what we don’t. Whatever He makes us go through is for our own good.

    May Allah always make us trust His plans, ameen

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  • Am I one of those who justify his haram (forbidden) acts?

    Am I one of those who justify his haram (forbidden) acts?

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    Am I one of those who justify his haram (forbidden) acts?

    A very important question we all need to ask ourselves.

    Justifying Evil Deeds

    Imam Sadiq had heard that an old man had become famous for his piety. One day, he saw him surrounded by a large crowd. A little later, the man came out of the crowd and distancing himself from them, proceeded alone, whereupon the Imam began to follow him.

    After a short time, the Imam observed that he had stopped near a bakery from where he stealthily picked up two loaves of bread. After a short distance, he stopped at a fruit store, picking up two pomegranates in the same manner and once again continued on his way.

    As he walked further, the old man approached a sick person, handed over the loaves and fruits to him and was about to move on when Imam Sadiq came up to him and said, “I have witnessed something greatly astonishing from you”, and then proceeded to narrate the acts, which he had witnessed.

    The old man said, “I suppose you are Imam Sadiq”

    The Imam replied in the affirmative.

    The man continued, “It is really unfortunate that in spite of being of the progeny of the Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) you do not seem to know anything.”

    The Imam asked, “What act of ignorance have you noticed from me?”

    The man said, “But do you not know that God has said in the Quran “Whoever brings a good deed, he shall have ten like it and whoever brings an evil deed, he shall be recompensed only with the like of it”.

    On this basis, since I have stolen two fruits and two loaves of bread, I have four sins in my account, but on the other hand, since I have given it in the way of God, I have earned forty good deeds. Reducing four from forty, I still have thirty-six good deeds in my account; a pity that you possess no knowledge of such computations!”

    The Imam explained to him, “But have you not heard this verse of the Quran, which says: “Allah only accepts from those who guard (against evil)”. You have earned four sins by stealing those four items and four more sins for giving them to someone else without the permission of the owners, so you have collected eight sins but not a single good deed.”

    Later, the Imam said to his companions, “With such interpretations and justifications, not only do they mislead themselves, but others as well.”

    Imam Sadiq has said:
    (Surely, the effect of an evil deed upon the doer is faster than that of a knife upon a piece of meat.)

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  • MAJOR SINS- 1) Shirk i.e Ascribing Associates To Allah, the Most High

    MAJOR SINS- 1) Shirk i.e Ascribing Associates To Allah, the Most High

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    The worst major sin is Shirk.

    It is of two kinds:

    1. a) To hold that Allah has an equal, whereas He has created you, and to worship another with Him, whether it be a stone, tree, sun, moon, prophet, sheikh, star, angel or other. This is the greatest shirk mentioned by Allah, the Most High.

    The Almighty, says,

    • “Allah forgives not (the sin of) joining other gods with Him; but He forgives whom He pleases, other sins than this; one who joins other gods with Allah has strayed far, far away (from the right).”(An-Nisa:l16)
    • “False worship is indeed the highest wrong-doing.” (Luqman:13)
    • Whoever joins other gods with Allah; Allah will forbid him the Garden, and the Fire will be his abode.”

    (Al-Ma’idah:72)

    The Qur’anic verses concerning this are very numerous. It is being absolutely certain that whoever ascribes associates to Allah and dies in such a state is one of Hell’s inhabitants, just as whoever believes in Allah and dies as a believer is one of the inhabitants of Paradise, even if he should be punished first.

    The Prophet (Peace be upon him) said,

    “Shall I tell you of the worst major sins? Worshipping others with Allah, showing disrespect to parents, giving a false statement, and testifying to the truth of a falsehood. And he kept repeating it until we were telling ourselves (out of sympathy for him because of the strain of repeating it)

    Avoid the seven heinous sins.” and he mentioned ascribing associates to Allah.

     Click here to read a beautiful Dua for forgiveness and PROTECTION from SHIRK [Polytheism]

    b) Ostentation

    “Beware of the lesser shirk. They asked, “What is the lesser shirk?” He said, “Showing off in good works.”

    Allah, the Almighty will say when recompensing the mankind for their deeds:

    • “Go to those whom you showed off to in the world to see how they could recompense you .” 1

    The Prophet (Peace be upon him) said,

    • “A person who does some good work in order to boast will have his faults exposed by Allah Most High and a person whose motive in doing some good deed is to show it, Allah the Most High will treat him as a hypocrite.” 2

    The Prophet (Peace be upon him) said,

    • “There may be a faster who does not gain from his fasting but hunger and thirst.”

    A wise man said, “Just as the one who shows off in good works is the one who fills his purse with pebbles and leaves for the market to buy food. If he opened it before the seller he will be stoned with it in his face. He gains nothing but the people’s inquiry about what fills his purse, nothing more. Thus, the one who shows off in good works will have no value but the people’s saying that he did good and he will not be rewarded in the Hereafter.”

    Allah, the Almighty, says,

    • And We shall turn to whatever deeds they did (in this life), and We shall make such deed as floating dust scattered about.” (AI-Furqan:23)

    The Prophet (Peace be upon him) said,

    • “On the Day of Judgment some groups of people will be brought near Paradise. Having smelt its fragrance, and seen palaces and blessings therein, they will hear a call saying “Take them away, it is not for them.”

    Accordingly, they return so sorrowful that no one could have such feeling. They will call upon Allah, “O Lord were we entered into the Hell-Fire before seeing what You have prepared for Your Friends,it would have been better.”

    Then Allah will say, That is what I want. When you were alone you defied Me with grievous sins, but when you meet people you showed off in good works, You only respected people not Me, You only refrain (from things) for their sake. Hence, today, I will severely torment you in addition to depriving you from My bountiful reward.” 3

    It was related that a man asked the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him)

    “How can I be redeemed?” The Prophet said, “If you do not deceive Allah” The man asked, “How is Allah deceived?” He replied, “When you do something which Allah and His Messenger commanded you to do but you intended other than pleasing Allah. Beware of ostentation, it is the lesser shirk (polytheism); On the Day of Judgment, the ostentatious will be called at the presence of all creatures by four names: O Ostentatious, O traitors, O corrupt, O loser; what you did is wasted and your reward is nullified. We will not reward you, go and get your reward from whomever you acted to deceive?”

    • A wise man was asked, “Who is the sincere one?” He replied, “It is he who hides his good deeds as he does with his bad deeds.” Someone asked, “What is the good of sincerity?” He said, “When you dislike to be praised by people.”

    Al-Fudail Ibn Eiad, may Allah be pleased with him said, “To refrain from an action for the sake of people is ostentation. To do something for their sake is shirk (polytheism). But sincerity is to be aware of them.

    O Allah! Let us be away from them and forgive us.

    Click here to read a beautiful Dua for forgiveness and PROTECTION from SHIRK [Polytheism]

    1 Reported by Ahmad.

    2 Reported by A1-Bukhari.

    3 Mentioned by A1-Siuti in “AI Laiali AI-Masnu’ah” who related that Ibn Hibban said that it is false and has no reference.

  • BE KIND TO your CHILDREN and TREAT THEM EQUALLY

    BE KIND TO your CHILDREN and TREAT THEM EQUALLY

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    We should keep the following hadiths in mind when dealing with our children:

    Abu Huraira Radi Allahu anhu reported that al-Aqra’ bin Habis saw Allah’s Apostle (may peace be upon him) kissing Hasan Radi Allahu anhu. He said: I have ten children, but I have never kissed any one of them, whereupon Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: He who does not show mercy (towards his children), no mercy would be shown to him.
    Muslim :: Book 30 : Hadith 5736

    The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “He is not of us who does not have mercy on young children, nor honor the elderly”
    (At-Tirmidhi)

    The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Act equally between your children; Act equally between your sons.
    Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3537,Narrated by An-Nu’man ibn Bashir

    ‘A’isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that there came a few desert Arabs to Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) and said: Do you kiss your children? He said: Yes. Thereupon they said: By Allah but we do not kiss our children. Thereupon Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Then what can I do if Allah has deprived you of mercy? Ibn Numair said: ( has deprived) your heart of mercy.
    Muslim :: Book 30 : Hadith 5735

    The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) came to some children who were playing: He greeted them lovingly.
    Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 5183,Narrated by Anas ibn Malik

    Al-Bara’ said, “I saw the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when al-Hasan Radi Allahu anhu was on his shoulder. He was saying, ‘O Allah, I love him, so love him.’”

    I prayed along with Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) the first prayer. He then went to his family and I also went along with him when he met some children (on the way). He began to pat the cheeks of each one of them. He also patted my cheek and I experienced a coolness or a fragrance of his hand as if it had been brought out from the scent bag of a perfumer.
    Sahih Muslim Hadith 5758

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  • Are you a carrier of the Holy Quran?

    Are you a carrier of the Holy Quran?

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    The carriers of the Qur’an are recognized by their nights (standing in prayer) when the people are asleep,

    by their days fasting when the people are feasting,

    by their caution when the people mix [the lawful and the unlawful],

    by their humility when the people are arrogant,

    by their sobriety when the people are frivolous,

    by their weeping when the people are laughing,

    and by their silence when the people chatter.

    Abdullah bin Mas‘ūd

     

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  • “So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?”

    “So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?”

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    Don’t deny the favors of Allah Subhaanahu wataa’la.


    Appreciate what you’ve got. Acting contrary to this attracts the calamity of Allah. If you don’t have some things in your life, you should be thankful for all the other blessings that you have.

    Many a times we fixate on just one thing that we don’t have and overlook all the other bounties of Allah. This is one of the traps of shaitan to develop a feeling of ingratitude in us and overwhelm us with sadness and grief.

    BEWARE and always be THANKFUL TO ALLAH .

     

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  • Do you want Allah to remember you and come close to you?

    Do you want Allah to remember you and come close to you?

    Allah Subhaanahu wataa'la

    The Prophet [Peace be upon him] said, “Allah says: ‘I am just as My slave thinks I am, (i.e. I am able to do for him what he thinks I can do for him)and I am with him if He remembers Me.

    If he remembers Me in himself, I too, remember him in Myself; and if he remembers Me in a group of people, I remember him in a group that is better than they;

    and if he comes one span nearer to Me, I go one cubit nearer to him; and if he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I go a distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.’ “
    Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 93 :: Hadith 502

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  • Using your wealth and knowledge for the sake of Allah

    Using your wealth and knowledge for the sake of Allah

    The Holy Quran

    Allah’s Apostle [Peace be upon him] said, “Do not wish to be like anyone, except in two cases:


    (1) A man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it righteously.


    (2) A man whom Allah has given wisdom (knowledge of the Quran and the Hadith) and he acts according to it and teaches it to others.”

    Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 89 :: Hadith 255

    ”O Allah! Give us halal wealth which we spend in Your cause,correct knowledge and understanding of Quran. Give us the ability to act upon its teachings and teach it to others” AMEEN